There Are Only Two Ways to Rule a Society, By Fear or by Hope,

There are only two ways to rule a society, by fearphysically stored in a portion of the brain closer to
or by hope, and its the same for any individual toothe amygdala. The amygdala is the primitive frog
My extensive study of history shows me that thebrain. This is a non-self aware portion of the Central
statement above is fundamentally true. But the mostNervous System found in all mammalian and reptilian
important thing is that as individuals we are much thebrains.
same.A quick example and proof that adrenal memory are
We can either allow ourselves to be ruled principallyqualitatively different from non-adrenal created
by fear, or we can lead our lives more positivelymemories is easy to provide.
through rational hope.At a seminar I will ask the people to raise their hands
Think about this a moment please, are you moreif they can remember exactly where they were and
preoccupied with the fear of what might happen,precisely what they were doing when they either
rather than on what you want to happen in yourheard that: (1) President Kennedy had been
general decision-making?assassinated or (2) They heard that the Space
I am no stranger to fear. I have certainly knownShuttle Challenger had exploded and crashed into the
knee-shaking fear and seen horrific examples of mysee.
own mortality. One cannot experience any form ofAlmost everyone will raise their hands in response to
real combat I think without experiencing that, or elseone of these questions even though the event
one is a total madman.occurred many years or decades ago.
But ultimately I saw that in that arena my bestThey remember in detail exactly what they were
survival strategy was not to engage the fear ofdoing and exactly where they were and in great
what might happen, but to stay alert and as calm asdetail. But they do not remember what was going on
possible and thus see clearly and immediatelyjust before they heard that trajic news. Nor do they
everything that was happening around meand thenremember what happened with such clarity at that
to respond appropriately.time the next day.
Ultimately it dawned on me that while my fear was aThis is because the news of the disaster had resulted
totally rational one under the circumstances, that fearin some adrenal flow in them and thus the memory
simply did not serve me. Indeed, it was more likely towas an 'adrenal memory'. That means it was stored
cause my demise than to save me.with more detail, more vibrancy and in much more of
This was a true epiphany for me and at a ratheran enduring fashion than any non-adrenal memory.
young age. But the lesson has stayed with me andIf you want to think to the next step here you can
served me well and now I am sixty years of age.see that this special nature of adrenal formed
I have spent the majority of my life trying tomemories is the essential basis of all PTSD
communicate this same lesson (minus the horror) tophenomena.
others. I make this effort through my books andHence, a PTSD episode will be triggered by any cue
through my adrenal stress conditioning trainingthat was in the environment when that adrenal
programs. When ones transcends some fear it ismemory was created. That cue and trigger could be
both a very liberating and often life changinga sound, humidity, a smell, a visual cue, etc. PTSD is
experience.not limited to combat veterans at all either. We can
There are two kinds of fear however, rational fearcarry subconscious PTSD triggers that were formed
and irrational fears.when we were young children.
Under normal circumstances rational fear serves you,However, with varying degrees of success I know it
it makes you look both ways before pulling out inis well possible to significantly moderate the negative
traffic etc. But you are not really feeling the fearlife effects of irrational fears and many PTSD
then are you? You are dealing with the danger in ansymptoms. This is not theory with me as I have
appropriate fashion though.been working with these concepts not as abstract
You have just learned to sublimate the experience oftheory, but as tools for over 25 years now.
fear in the act of pulling out into traffic for the mostA woman who has been forcibly raped will almost
part.always have PTSD symptoms to some degree or
This is because you have gotten used to it. But thisanother from this atrocious violation of human rights.
was not always so.The triggers to these PTSD symptoms can be many.
You experienced more fear pulling out into trafficExamples of triggers could be, a smell, an article of
when you were younger and first learned to driveclothing a song that was playing on the radio during
didnt you? My point is we can discover and unlearnthe attack etc.
other fears that do not serve us too.But if she is placed into a scenario that recreates the
We can eliminate fears that limit our lives and that willtraumatic event she will experience an adrenal flow
provide us with the strong potential to developand whatever occurs during that time will create
'rational hope' as our world view. That is the attitudeanother adrenal memory through the same
we need, it one that will expand our lives.biochemistry as the actual assault did.
Sorational fears can be reduced and sublimated likeNow here is where the therapeutic aspect manifests
the example of pulling out in traffic without beingitself. If what happens in the scenario is she has been
excessively concerned about a crash.trained to where mentally and physically she can
But rational fears serve a survival purpose too. Somedefeat the mock assailant she will still be quite
rational fears keep us from doing stupid andadrenalized and as a rule very much so.
dangerous things like sticking your hand into aThe mock assailant Iuse is well trained and wears
rattlesnake cage.padded armor so she can attack the eyes, groin and
Now let me tell you something significant abouthead without restraint. It only takes a weekend to
sticking ones hand out to a rattlesnake in a cage.actualize the bulk of anyones self-defense potential
Decades ago in a bar I frequented in El Paso, Texas,too. The key is their unleashing and tapping into to
there was a large and very much alive rattlesnake intheir survival instincts more than technique as martial
a lidded glass aquarium. It was a bit more than justarts people often believe.
curiosity to attract travelers into the bar too.Understand I say that as a member of the
The aquarium was quite secure and the snake couldInternational Black Belt Hall of Fame too. It isnt the
not strike anyone from inside. But, as locals we knewsize of the woman in the fight, its the size of the
the 'secret truth'. And so occasionally we would makefight in the woman that counts most.
a wager with a passing tourist.But understand what has occurred here on a
The bet was that they could not hold their handsubconscious level when she defeats her assailant in
against the glass and keep it there when the rattlerthe scenario. At fist you might think it is a cathartic
struck at their hand from inside the glass.effect and while it is, that is not the most significant
The stranger might suspect something was up, buttherapeutic effect here at all.
he often still told himself, The snake cant hurt meIn doing this scenario she has created two adrenal
through the glass so I can win this bet. He wasmemories in her pre-conscious with basically the same
ignoring something his gut was trying to tell him there.'triggers'. The scenario is deliberately engineered that
Pay attention to your 'gut feelings' and, learn to trustway and by her own direction too.
them too.They are there for a reason.These two different outcomes, the actual and the
Often we enticed the tourist further by giving himscenario, them in a short time become convoluted
favorable odds, like two or three to one that hewith each other. The new neural nets need some
could not do it.time to form, this can be a few weeks or so, or a
You see we knew that he could not do it, almostfew months. The cathartic effect is powerful and
nobody can. So when the guy stuck his hand on theimmediate though.
glass and the rattler stuck at the glass he jerked hisAfter this, when exposed to a PTSD eliciting cue her
hand away instantly!mind brings up alternative imagery than before the
Sometimes hed even make another bet being soadrenal stress, scenario based treatment. It is then a
sure he could do it the next time, as hed be morememory mixed with fear and triumph. Once this is
consciously prepared. But the result was always theestablished her own cognitive, self-aware mind can
same because the reaction to jerk your hand awaybetter engage the trauma and further heal it.
is involuntary and does not engage the self-awareThe process is basically the same with any irrational
mind.fear or PTSD situation. But I must also say that an
Lets think about this situation though and in terms ofindividual should be far enough along mentally to
what it tells us about fear. I believe that if a personengage this type of therapy. They have to be ready
had no knowledge at all of rattle snakes he'd still jerkfor it in a sense.
his hand away.I also want to point out another benefit of this
I mean if they had never even seen a rattler before:process, even for people not suffering from PTSD or
in pictures, literature or film or in any other mediumany truly disabling irrational fears.
and so they were happily and totally ignorant of theMost people's socialization has estranged them from
existence of rattle snakes, they would still jerk theirtheir survival instincts. Those instincts are always
hand away when the snake fustily struck the insidethere, but they may have never experienced them
of the glass at their hand.before.
Now If the above is fundamentally true,then weWhen a persons survival instinct are engaged, and
must ask: Why is it so?like the rattler in the cage, this does not require that
It is because we carry genetic memories that isthere be any 'real danger' to do this, they become
genetic fears that activate our neurological systemstronger and more balanced and confident in their
and thus produce this automatic motor response. Weconsciousness.
dont have to know there is danger when the snakeWe only need to project the voice, tone, and body
strikes, the body already knows.carriage of a verbal abusive and threatening assailant
The mechanism by which genetic memories areto adrenalize most people in our programs. Again, the
formed is not fully understood as yet. But thebody just does not know the difference.
peculiar nature of memories created and experiencedBlack Belt Magazine called my weekend program The
under adrenal stress provides us with a verybest short self-defense program existent.
significant clue.Self-Defense is important too, but if this was all the
It is already well established biochemically thatRMCAT program accomplished for people, I may
memories (neural nets) formed under the adrenalhave given it up years ago.
flow are stored differently in the brain thanIn closing good people think on this thought. For the
non-adrenal memories.most part often we can be just as happy as we
Such 'adrenal stress created memories' are alsomake up our minds to be.