| Sometimes, when you're thinking "I want my ex | | | | If she's really upset about it, offer yourself as moral |
| girlfriend back so bad," your inclination is to do | | | | support. Of course, some women have no trouble |
| something big and grandiose to impress her. And | | | | facing down the bogeymen out there, but everyone |
| while in certain circumstances that may help, I'm | | | | has areas of their life where they need moral |
| willing to bet it's the little things that will help you | | | | support. Be there for her. |
| sneak your way in the back door to her heart. The | | | | 5. Buy her a manicure or pedicure. Sounds silly, but I |
| idea here is to show her you care, and that you will | | | | don't know a single woman who doesn't love this |
| be there if she needs you. Here's a few ideas that | | | | kind of pampering. Get a recommendation for a spa |
| will get you started. | | | | that does these treatments and buy her a gift |
| | | | certificate; have the spa send it to her in the mail. |
| 1. Fix-it or yard clean-up projects that she hates to | | | | What a great surprise! |
| do. I don't know about your girlfriend, but man, I | | | | 6. If you're on good terms with her family, offer to |
| hate having to fix my toilet. One time, I let it sit | | | | help them with a project. Does her baby brother |
| there in pieces for two weeks until I found a man to | | | | want that new space shuttle patch for his jacket? |
| fix it! Pathetic, isn't it? Think about what she just | | | | Does her dad need an extra pair of hands for a |
| can't stand doing, and if it seems appropriate, | | | | heavy chore? Help them out. Don't make it a secret, |
| volunteer to do it. With no thought of return, I might | | | | but don't tell her. Her family will make sure to let her |
| add. | | | | know how helpful you've been. |
| 2. Give up something she always disliked about you. | | | | 7. Send her flowers. Yes, women really do love |
| Did she hate your beard? Your baseball cap? Gone! If | | | | flowers. Send me roses and I'm a goner! Pay close |
| it's something you can give up without too much | | | | attention, however, to what type you get her. Does |
| discomfort, ditch it. I'm not talking about getting rid | | | | she have allergies? Does she have a favorite? Buying |
| of something that's very important to you, but | | | | the right flowers will make her all the more |
| showing her you can be flexible about the little things | | | | impressed. |
| will go a long way toward getting her attention. | | | | By now you can see there are many things, small |
| 3. Something you promised her you would do that | | | | and large, that you can do to get back in her good |
| you never got around to. Did you tell her you would | | | | graces. One note of caution: not all of the ideas listed |
| paint her bedroom? Or fix that toilet? Apologize to | | | | above will work for you. Everyone's situation is |
| her for putting it off and set a time with her to | | | | different. Give it some careful consideration before |
| come over and get it done. If you're thinking, "If I | | | | you act. And remember, this kind of helpful attitude |
| want my ex girlfriend back, I have to be a man who | | | | from you, devoid of any manipulation or thought of |
| does not procrastinate," you are so right. | | | | return, will surely bring about that one thing you long |
| 4. Is she having trouble with a business? Maybe they | | | | for: your girlfriend putting her hand in the crook of |
| double charged her or won't replace broken goods? | | | | your elbow as she walks by your side. |