How to Write Memoirs That Others Will Want to Read

You do not need to be famous or have led a life ofmembers about specific incidents they would rather
adventure and mystery to write memoirs that will bekeep private.
of interest to others. Even if you consider your lifeKeep in mind that you are telling the story from your
to have been average, you may have fascinatingpoint of view. Anyone can find transcripts of the
stories to tell. Your perspective on historic events isfireside chats President Roosevelt made during World
unique and worth telling. To help you relate your tale,War II, for instance. What will make your memoirs
here are some tips on how to write memoirs thatinteresting is how they affected you or your family.
others will want to read.Perhaps there was a ritual involved, such as
Writing your story can be intimidating if you look ateveryone sitting down with a cup of hot chocolate
the project in its entirety. It may be helpful to firstto listen. Or perhaps you had friends or relatives
write down individual incidents that are the mostserving in Vietnam. Write about how you reacted to
memorable to you. Do not worry about producingtheir deployment and the letters you exchanged. Or
one long chronological work. Instead, write separateyou can write about your reaction to the moon
pieces that describe one event or series of events.landing or the space shuttle disasters. What is
Later, you can place them in the desired order.important is not the historical detail, but your personal
Some people find it easier to talk about the pastimpression of the event.
rather than try to write it. You can use a small tapeEven everyday events can be of interest to readers
recorder to create your memoirs. Just talk into it asof your memoirs. Did you buy a paper dress when
if you were telling the story to a friend or relative.they were popular, and how did it work out? What
Use the tapes to jog your memory when you arewas it like to use a microwave for the first time?
ready to transcribe them.How did it feel to hold your newborn for the first
Remember to edit yourself as you go, not for propertime? What was your first car like, or your first
spelling and punctuation but for content. Certainapartment?
incidents could be embarrassing or hurtful to otherThe most important advice on how to write memoirs
family members. For example, if your son is ais to be yourself. Readers want to know about you,
professional football player, relating an anecdoteyour experiences, and your reactions. They can read
about his favorite doll as a baby could embarrass him.a history book if they want the details on exactly
Your happily married daughter might prefer herwhat happened and why. You, however, are their
husband not learn about an overwhelming infatuationonly source for how the events impacted your life.
she had in high school. If in doubt, talk to family