Playing Creative Games For Fun: A Great Way To Relax

Play is a state of mind that is safe, inquisitive andexistence; it is one of the evolutionary mechanisms
exists in the moment. It is also a bodily state ofthat enabled us to develop as a species. Playing helps
relaxation and an uplifting and engaged emotionalus survive by connecting us to other human beings
state. Some say play is a spiritual state of profoundand to sources of energy and excitement within
connection and joy. Play can be something we do byourselves. Play is simultaneously a source of calmness
ourselves or with others, but it is also something weand relaxation, as well as a source of stimulation for
can watch others do. Play is often described as athe brain and body.
time when we feel most alive, yet we often take itPlay will be important to our future. Some futurists
for granted and may completely forget about it. Playhave said that we'll need to be more inventive,
can be entirely positive, or have a negative.creative, and flexible to handle the tasks, flow and
Most people believe that play is unproductive, andrhythm of life in this century and beyond. A sure (and
therefore inferior to "productive" activities. Perhapsfun) way to develop these abilities is to play - with
this is because we equate play with feeling -happyyour children and grandchildren, your officemates and
joyous feeling -that traditionally is seen as lessfriends.
important than thinking. Many of us have lists, atWhy is it important to play at work?
home and at the office, prioritizing tasks by howWhen researchers follow pre-teen children's attitude
productive they are. When we run out of time, weabout play, they discovered that some children called
cut the fun stuff and do the "productive" stuffalmost everything they did "play" while others called
because we may feel guilty or bad if we play hookyalmost everything they did "work". Reconnecting with
or goof off by playing a game of golf or chess,the children at the end of adolescence, the children
taking a hike in the woods or daydreaming for anwho thought of everything as play were more
hour. New research on the brain contradicts thissuccessful and happier in school and were more
cultural dismissal of play, by emphasizing thecontent socially than the people who saw everything
importance of feelings and the necessity of feelingas "work".
safe and relaxed in order to think clearly andSuccess at work does not depend on the amount of
productively. Play teaches us how tomanage andtime you work. It depends upon the quality of work,
transform our "negative" emotions and experiences;and the quality of work depends on the level of
it supercharges learning, and is a foundational factor inwell-being of the workers. The level of well-being
good mental and physical health. And, it can makedepends significantly on the how often they replenish
work more pleasurable.themselves through play in any of its forms. Work is
How can play trigger the flow state?where we spend much of our time. That is why it is
Psychiatrist and writer Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi,especially important for us to play during work.
(pronounced "chicks send me high") studied play inWithout some recreation, our work suffers. Most of
Sidney, Australia and described it as a flow state thatus have been working faster, harder, and smarter,
requires just the right balance of challenge andand with diminishing free time. We first thought that
opportunity. If the game is too hard or too easy, itworking faster, harder, and smarter would handle our
loses its sense of pleasure and fun. Maintaining a flowincreased workload, but that is not the case. We still
state in games with others requires all participants,got behind and became chronically overwhelmed.
regardless of age or ability, to feel challenged, butWhen the project you're working on hits a serious
not overwhelmed. Csikszentmihalyi's research hasglitch (as they frequently do), heading out to the
been undertaken and confirmed in several countries,basketball court with your colleagues to shoot some
and now reaches 250,000 surveys. In the flow statehoops and have a few laughs does a lot more than
we feel:take your mind off the problem. If basketball isn't
Why is play an important part of our lives?your cup of tea, having a model airplane contest,
Humans are designed by nature to play, and havetelling stories, or flying kites in the parking lot will also
played throughout evolution. Playfulness is an inbornallow your relationship to the problem to shift and
ability that is hardwired into our genetic code. Play isenable you to approach it from a new perspective.
part of how humans have adapted and survivedInterjecting play into the work cycle: keeps you sane
everywhere on Earth, from the tropics to the greatand functional during times of stress; refreshes your
deserts to the Arctic Circle. We want to playmind and body; renews hope; triggers creativity; and
because it is instinctive and fundamental to ourincreases energy.