Give Yourself Permission

It is September 14, 2001 and I am sitting here tryingvicariously. So I gave myselfpermission, and just left
tothink of something to share; frankly, I can't. I'm stillthe TV on.I didn't even pretendthat I was trying to
inshock over the events of the last few days so I'mget anything done; I just stayed gluedto the tube to
going tooffer this:stay informed. Occasionally I had to remindmyself to
I have always maintained that TV is the archenemybreathe.
of thehome-based business owner because it's soI didn't get much done, but it doesn't matter; I did
easy to getsucked-in and completely distracted. I'vewhatwas most important at the time. After all, my
tried to workwhile the TV is on, but I'm only at 50%country wasunder attack. Members of my American
capacity at best. Isuppose that's better than sitting"family" were lost.
on the couch with a bowlof popcorn, but I preferOthers were heroes. The coverage of the events
operating at a higher level thanthat.and all ofthe incredible ramifications was nothing short
The solution I have always recommended is to neverof amazing.
turn on aIt was a monumental moment of history, and I know
TV in the first place. It's amazing how easy it is toI did theright thing. If I had been in New York, I
avoidplot lines when you don't know what they are!would have beenout of the house (or apartment)
That said,when there is a major news event I finddoing SOMETHING to help
myself in terribleconflict; should I keep my nose toSOMEBODY who was more directly affected than I.
the grindstone or justIn reading what I just wrote, it sounds like I feel
'give-in' to the temptation to keep up with what'sguiltydoesn't it? Well, I do a little because I, like
going on?mostentrepreneurs, have a strong work ethic. On the
I have found myself in this predicament during majorother hand,we also need to strike a balance between
eventssuch as the Columbine shootings, theour work and otherpriorities.
Northridge earthquake,the Gulf War, and theI'm in great pain because of what I saw and heard,
Challenger space shuttle disaster.but inretrospect I really had no choice. It was simply
When something happens that is so devastating, sonotpossible for me to ignore what was happening so
traumatic,so incomprehensible as the terrorist attacksthat I could
on the World"get some work done".
Trade Center and the Pentagon, I am not doingIf it's a really important distraction, give
myself a favorby 'resisting'. I NEED to keep up withyourselfpermission. After all, some things are just
the details. I NEEDto know what's happening. I NEEDmore importantthan a few hours of work.
to feel involved in somefashion, even if only